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Question: Why do asian women date interracially at high numbers?

(Posted by: jason w on 2007-05-20 16:31:44)

It makes me angry seeing asian women with non- asian men (mostly white, but others too like indian, black, latino). Living in san francisco, i see it far too frequently. I've don't ever see Asian men with caucasian (or non- asian) women at all. It's something about the DNA in Asian women that make them more comfortable with interracial dating. I think it's almost a self- hate thing showing up in asian women. It's their own self- hatred and hatred for fellow asian men. To create a biasian baby is the ultimate sign of it, a symbolism of asian women's insecurity with being an asian woman in America.

Posted by: bourbon on 2007-05-23, 11:55:08

There might be some asian women in genuinely loving relationships with white men. But I knew some asian women very well in college. And inspite of all the stuff they say about how it dosen't matter to be in an interracial relationship, I did notice a lot of them did think of it as social climbing. An asian girl in a relationship with a white guy was socially superior in her family and among her friends. Its sad, because self respect is more important than socially elevated statuses

Posted by: cai on 2007-05-20, 16:35:54

Because they want to now get over it and stop crying. that's really none of your buisness.

Posted by: baddest onda block dont fck w me on 2007-05-20, 16:41:36

WHRE DA f-ck do u pull al lthis bull-shyt from b-ch??go to asai and u'll fidn tha 99.9999% of the women there are w/ asian mean u dipsh0t!!! juss tha when asains come to america there's a lto mr oechoices ya p-ssy..o oo and i'm asain/ black mixed and i'm fu-ckin gorgeous dont' f-ck w/ cuz i can beat ur as-s..i dont' even hav to beat it..i get my gang to do tha..

Posted by: Trinity on 2007-05-20, 16:54:53

Technically we're all related. Scientists have found a woman they call 'Eve' that everyone can trace their DNA back to. So you can't really accuse anyone of dating outside their own race. And you call them insecure? They're obviously secure enough not to care what other uneducated morons like you think.

Posted by: IHateRacistPeople!!!! on 2007-05-20, 17:00:29

Here goes this b!tch jaylaa again talkin out of her @$$...oh excuss me "the baddest one on the block "....dumb b!tch!!!get a life!!!!! and not all white people have to tan....most are naturally tanned!!!!

Posted by: Sabrina T on 2007-05-20, 17:04:26

I'm so sick and tired of hearing how some ppl here disrespecting ppl of all colors, some guys above who said that asian men are ugly and that they have 2 inch erections can go to hell! I'm tired of some ppl favoring asian women just cuz we look attractive, some ppl are jus trying to objectify us. if anyone think its rite to diss asian men, you're offending the whole group cuz towards our families. I don't think asian women deserve any more attention just cuz of the way we look, we're just human and i think men like that don't deserve to have any asian woman. And as for jason, i don't get why you can't understand this is not the 1800s. Ppl don't see a difference in dating out of their race cuz ppl of all colors are obligated to love one another. It has nothing to do with hatred towards asian men, i've been in an all asian skoo more than half my life, and they treated me really bad, they spread rumors and avoided me, even tho i was really quite nice and shy. Not all of them were mean, but it was enough for me to think that i'd have no one for the rest of my life. It only took till i went to a mixed highschool that there were guys who treated me with respect and that's why i dated out of my race, my first bf was white. B4 i went out with him, i almost went out with this black guy at my skoo even tho physically i wasnt attracted to black ppl, it was all personality and he was a super funny band musician who was a hardcore led zeppelin fan. My choice has nothing to do with hatred towards my race, it's all about sending off good energy towards ppl and loving someone who has a positive personality and fun interests.

Posted by: Blindman on 2007-05-20, 17:08:30

I have seen many asian guys with white women, so it goes both ways. The plain truth is that every nonwhite (man or woman) would rather be with a white, even if they claim otherwise. The standard of whites as the most beautiful people has been pumped into their minds from day one. So how can you expect things to be any different? The other thing is that asians and other nonwhites provide an excellent dating resource for marginalized whites. So everyone wins.

Posted by: Laurie J on 2007-05-23, 06:32:43

Stop focusing on asian women and focus on single women or all races. Regarding asian women all that glitter ain't gold! I know of asian and white couples yes asian woman and white men and they have more drama then most same race couples. When you marry an asian women you are marrying her family sorry. Where I live a new couple moved in about 6 months ago in with a beautiful little girl. This couple the man is japanese and she is african american. I have noticed that the asian women who are mostly married to white men are very jealous of the relationship. They like to make little comments like he must could not find a asian women, he lowered his standards, she not pretty, she full figured, well based on what i have observered he loves her! You should have seen the looks when he brought her a new Lexus for mother days. Heck I was litty jealous.

Posted by: 500 on 2007-05-25, 03:11:49

The simple answer is that asian women date outside their race because they CAN. just as white women often date outside of their "race " and white men date outside of their "race. it is because they can. they have the options, and they are viable. many people of all races, enjoy dating outside of their race for different reasons. if asian men could easily date outside their race, im pretty sure they would as well. i have a lot of asian male friends that like or are attracted to women of other races. But they are never approached by those women, and/ or find it difficult to make contact with them. it is just social prejudice that limits asian male options for dating. btw/ i don't think asian women hate asian men. i'm an AW and i've had many asian bfs in the past and also had crushes on many asian guys (who often rejected me!) And most asian girls i know have had their fair share of asian boyfriends.

Posted by: Kitty on 2007-05-25, 09:58:55

I've seen MOST, i'm not saying ALL, Thai women who do this thing where they date only foreign white men because its a sign of security and so that their babies can be mixed. In Thailand's entertainment business, almost 70 percent of the top actors, actresses, singers, etc are mixed. They dont even really give full Thai people a chance now unless they possess some Caucasian features like light skin, a narrow nose, etc. Ex:idolworld.com/ If you read the bios a lot of the celebrities are mixed. Other women like myself dated outside the race, but its not by choice. I dont like making the first move and Asian guys are always so shy. So most of the guys who hit on me are men outside my race. I'd love to date someone inside my race because there are so many common interests and there is no cultural barrrier to break which are often difficult. But I've come to learn that when it comes down to the point its not about race at all its about the individual people/ person. Some of the interracial relationships I've had were wonderful. Its not Asian women self hate, its ASIAN MEN SELF HATE because all the Asian men do is complain but do nothing to change themselves. Where is the confidence?

Posted by: Darren J on 2007-05-25, 17:43:04

It's because of "Juk Sing " The term "Juk Sing " means "caught between the notch of a bamboo stick " in Cantonese. It's also how immigrants disparagingly refer to their U.S.-born counterparts: those who genetically share the same ethnicity but are seen as being forever caught in the middle, not fully American because of their looks, but not truly Chinese because of their American attitudes and their lack of proficiency in the Chinese language. ____________ It's because of Juk Sing... About being accepted! It's not about "Self Hate ". Everybody wants to be accepted. Some girls look for this by dating people of other cultures... typically white. Caucasians are the most accepted race in the United States. Not only are Asian girls accepted by whites they are sought out as a prized commodity. As for many Asian guy's, because of the lack of acceptance in the West, they tend to gravitate more to the Asian culture, sticking as close to their cultural roots as possible, for even a partial acceptance is better than none at all.-- it's a sad reality but its true. I'm sure some women, if not subliminally, feel that having a half white baby will also give their offspring a better chance of being accepted, not having to live a life of both cultures alienating them, by not being "white " American nor Asian-- It's a sad fact that I leave my children with the same burden that I carry, -- for they too will also be "Juk Sing! "

Posted by: Arie on 2007-05-26, 01:53:49

When you are more mature and wiser, you will see that people only want to be with people who treats them well. Would you want to be with someone who controls you? That no matter how good, respectful, and nuturing you are, you are still just a woman. In most Asain cultures, it is mostly male dominated. You will not even begin to understand the dramas and hells these women went through and are still going through everyday. I know at least 100 women that are going through this right now. Do you? Don't judge and assume just because it's easy to place your insecurities toward Asain women. Seek help for yourself before your own insecurities and ignorances destroy your life. Not that I cared.

Posted by: Rev. Bobby L. Adams on 2007-05-26, 18:35:35

I think your problem is you really want to get with an asian, but none will have you,

Posted by: Kai on 2007-05-28, 01:14:42

Theres nothin rong with it.i think your the one with a problem

Posted by: dinkum360 on 2007-05-28, 04:45:01

Who are you to feel angry ? Leave San Francisco and go live somewhere like Ely, Minnesotta or Fargo, N. D. and mind your own business !