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Question: Why do asian women date white men and not black or hispanic?

(Posted by: Niko on 2008-12-10 21:34:56)

I have yet to see an asian woman with a man that is not white or asian. Yes, there are asian women dating other races, but usually those are younger people. I don't think it's a thing of white men liking asian women, I think it's asian women prefering white men.

Posted by: Yvonne Cesaro on 2008-12-10, 21:38:53

I think it's a little bit true that Asian women may prefer white men but I have seen Asian women with black men when I was out and about. Same can be said of Asian men. When they do date outside of their race it's usually with a white person.

Posted by: jack on 2008-12-10, 21:39:01

I don't think so. I have black friends and hispanic friends who have husbands or wives who are asian. must be in your area only

Posted by: janicekristy on 2008-12-10, 21:39:14

Not sure, must be mental thing with white is right. But I have seen asian women dating black men before. I even seen marriage between the two, its few and far between but still I have seen it before. They looked happy. PEACE

Posted by: Furface Killah on 2008-12-10, 21:39:22

Kimora Lee Simmons yo.

Posted by: Grace on 2008-12-10, 21:41:29

Its always about status. White men are seen at a high statue media wise and asian women go for it. Also asian women are not into the thug trend. So if you dress thug, or talk slang it makes them look the other way more. Alot will say they like white men because they are tall..............other races of men are too. Its just for status reasons. Edit: I have seen some date..very rare, but never marry.

Posted by: DlCK Chenney on 2008-12-10, 21:46:36

You forgot mentioned they also like jew and arabs ... fillipino women are known to marry any races that have $$$$$ if dog have money guess whom end up marry it ... "fillipino " CBS morning show with that chinese tv. anchor her husband is a jew producer of morning show what's coincident eh....talking about sucking up to your boss ...!! We have term for it **** GOLD DIGGER ***

Posted by: Peridot on 2008-12-10, 21:48:47

*Man, what race does like black men? I don't even think black women like black men sometimes....well, unless he plays in the NBA or something. Just keeping it real.

Posted by: edoedo on 2008-12-10, 21:57:20

Well, why are you worry about it? I married to black woman. By the way I'm white male.

Posted by: miabailey76 on 2008-12-10, 21:59:24

Are u seriously asking this question with all thees blasian kids i see running around everyday?

Posted by: Tim H on 2008-12-10, 22:09:49

I like white and black women.

Posted by: zadignose on 2008-12-10, 22:11:57

I think this is a highly complicated issue. Of course we would all agree that there are no universals, but we can talk about trends. I'd say that many East Asian women who either reside in Asia, or were born there and have migrated, have family values that tend to encourage them to date/ marry other Asians, and this is a stronger pressure than among those born/ raised with American values. Those who do date/ marry outside their ethnic group (like my wife who is Korean, and married me, a white guy), are more prone to go out with white westerners. I think this is simply less radical for their society. Asians are more familiar with white celebrities, white culture, the glamor images of magazines and Hollywood movies. Other ethnic groups are simply more foreign. I think, for some Asian women, a black mate is potentially more attractive but also more scandalous, kind of like a white woman dating a black man in rural Mississippi before the civil rights era (well, the racism isn't that charged or overt, but you get the picture). I think Asian women who are more assimilated into American culture are more open to dating a variety of races, if they are willing to date outside their race at all. I've read controversial articles about racial attraction, and I can't necessarily subscribe to a definite explanation, but I think we can see a "trend of attraction " in interracial relationships. If we consider for the moment only Black, White, and Asian groups, and examine what men are attracted to when going outside their racial groups, I think a graph would look something like this: Black - > White - > Asian and if we look at the chart of attraction from a female perspective, it would look like this: Black <- White <- Asian A large number of people don't want to date outside their ethnic group, and are attracted only to people within it. BUT, for those who are willing to look outside their group, they tend to look in the direction of the arrow. Going outside your group is radical. Going two steps is more radical. Going against the arrow is also more radical. A rather uncommon couple would be an east Asian man married to a black woman. But, as noted, these are trends that don't hold true for all individuals. Also consider that these trends explain why Asian men and Black women are often the most resentful of people dating outside the race. Black men and Asian women have a larger pool of potential mates to choose from. Also note that there are contrary forces at play. Social forces prefer to keep "same type with same type, " but biological factors favor diversification. So interracial dating will always carry some kind of stigma and produce conflict. What about Hispanics? Well, I think both Hispanic men and women hold attraction for people outside the race, but also represent the same degree of taboo for going outside the race. From an Asian woman's perspective, though, dark skin represents a more radical attraction than white skin, and that's a cultural barrier that fewer are willing to cross. NOTE: Please note that I have not stated that people *should* or *should not* behave in this way. I've only attempted to address the question, and explain why things are the way they are. I personally respect anyone who dates or marries for love, regardless of any racial consideration.

Posted by: 皇� on 2008-12-10, 22:16:21

White men match their beauty ideals: fair skin, round eyes (possibly blue or hazel), well-built... Like you said, they do date blacks and others too but on a much smaller scale.

Posted by: slkrchck on 2008-12-10, 22:17:29

I see many filipinos and japanese with black men. i am japanese and i've always preferred white. just a preference. we've all got 'em. sometimes we like buttermilk, crullers and glazed with sprinkles, but if apple fritters are our favorite then it is so. and just because we don't like maple, don't hate us. we all get to choose.

Posted by: lil, dog lover, amo un italiano on 2008-12-10, 22:46:33

I have seen numbers of black husband/ chinese wife couples in my neighborhood. Their ages ranged from 30s - 50s, and I have seen their teenaged kids too, very pretty. They looked very happy families. EDIT : ANSWERER " Royalmas "****************************** Most of the factors you talked about could be found in women of any races, not just asian. If most of the asian/ white marriage were based on money, visa, when the goal is realised, supposed we should see a lot of divorces. Have you seen a lot ? For money. Vast majority of white people are in the middle income class and are far from being called wealthy, and many asian family actually do very well themselves, i cant see money is the factor in most of the asian/ whte marriages. For status, yes, some asian may think so since it is a white dominant country, but what about other minority women who married white, why only fingure point to asian women. In fact, whether a white can have a good social status all depends on his career and financial background and the higher status is not a " for granted " for them. The most I would agree to your point is only 50% and this 50% can actually apply to women of other races who are married to white or are interested in marrying white men

Posted by: Mikey on 2008-12-10, 22:52:49

From what I've observed, it doesn't have so much to do with "natural attraction " per se. I think that even though that is a factor, the older generation of asian parents perceive America as having wealthy high-up whites and poor low-class blacks. These immigrant asians have this consrvative attitude that affects their children. As time continues on this nation will become more liberal and accepting of inter-racial marriages, and the prevailing immigrant mentally of endogamy will drop to nothing. I don't think it's a matter of whether asian women liking white men more than visaversa. I think it's just a matter of personal preference, and one's ability to open enough to branch out of their own race.

Posted by: Jose H on 2008-12-10, 22:56:14

They like small worms cuz their vejayjay is tiny

Posted by: Royalmaster on 2008-12-11, 03:10:37

I'll answer this question while posing direct attack against zadignose and his answer. Zadignose, your answer is invalid and manipulative! You are acting as if this issue is not an issue of concern in society and hence you try to convince us to neglect it by posing invalid answers. First, assimilation of American culture does not give a reason to why Asian women prefer White guys. Assume your statement is true, then Asian women will develop a social-consciousness that White people are in the top bracket of society. Why? 1. America is a white-dominate country. 2. Asians themselves (by culture) develop their own scale in class. Any one of these two reasons is enough for an Asian women to date/ marry a White guy simply to "move to an upper class ". This poses a problem... If that statement is true, then love is removed out of the equation and you're simply dating for the wrong reason. If the statement is false, then the assimilation that you mentioned isn't successful (because according to you, the assimilation is responsible for inter-racial dating). Hence, your statement is a paradox such as no matter the statement being true or false, the issue of inter-racial dating/ marriage is a problem. Second, you've neglected the importance of culture in the decision in going inter-racial. People with weak sense of family/ cultural values tend to go inter-racial. Observe, the trend below: In Hong Kong, you may notice that there is always a White guy with an Asian girl whenever you see an inter-racial date. Usually, the White guy has his ears pierced in all sorts of ways and wears wacky clothes (just think of all sorts of appearances that WON'T get you a job). Also, the Asian girl will be at least 30cm shorter, almost half the size as the White guy. The girl is usually with heavy make-up and is almost certain that she's unemployed. I'm an Asian guy... and there's NO WAY I'll date a girl like her (Literally, a "ghost ")... It is obvious that the White guy has no sense of family values and does not realise that girls like her rely on skin-deep appearances to attract guys like him... Thirdly (extend from point 2), it defys nature to hold inter-racial marriage. From the example above, there is no way that the Asian girl can hold the White guys' child without having caesarean delivery (where the abdomen is cut to draw the baby out). Even when this problem is overcomed, the new-born child will lose the sense of relating to a culture (very few end up being successful due to loss of values) In conclusion (using Logical Reasoning, the three points above and the trends that the majority of us have observed), it is important to tell people (both Asian women and White men) that they should be more aware when they deal with the issue of going inter-racial. They need to make sure that they are not going inter-racial for the wrong reasons (e.g. "mov[ing] to an upper class ", "wanting the end racism ", "hating your own race " etc.) If these factors are considered, at least 20% (at most 80%) of the White guy/ Asian girl date/ marriage will cease to exist.

Posted by: brigittehanfrank on 2008-12-11, 09:44:01

Here there are many asian and blk.couples.I have 2 nephews and my sons father is asian and black.I guess what you see depends where you live

Posted by: Lurkain on 2008-12-11, 17:18:56

Actually I've seen asians dating hispanics and one or two with black men. When they date men outside of their race often they want light skin. Of the latin men dating asian women usually the asian girl identifies with other immigrants(something which they can't do with blacks) or he's really pale. When asian girls are with black guys dollars to donuts he's light skinned. You can get an asian woman to like you but you'll need skin bleach

Posted by: Lil Jay Chou on 2008-12-11, 22:35:34

Its called money... seriously... im strongly against interracial marriage though. jst saying hope all asian women go back to asian men cuz liike all asian women go for white men now.. its freakin annoying.. white men arent even that great in terms of treating women and manners. well some r really great ppl, but most white guys r jst jerks.