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Question: Do black men get upset when they see black women with white men?

(Posted by: CariChick on 2009-11-30 07:31:26)

Posted by: Panda C on 2009-11-30, 07:44:04

Yea they do, just like black women get upset seeing black men/ white women honestly i think all races get upset whenever a person of their race dates another race. Why? because they believe it to be a form of rejection. Sometimes they believe that person(that dates out of their race) bashes people of their on race(in other words they are racist). This is the case USUALLY for blacks(but not always) I've found some blacks to be more racist to fellow blacks than white people are.....so this can happen

Posted by: Guyana Clock on 2009-11-30, 07:35:21

Some do, stems from the fact we were once property,

Posted by: Jamie Lynn Spears on 2009-11-30, 07:35:53

I heard that a lot do, but the funny part is that some of them date white girls themselves. smh. hypocrites.

Posted by: Neo Draven on 2009-11-30, 07:36:05

Black men get upset by a lot of things. Why should this be any exception?

Posted by: dj-PIERRE on 2009-11-30, 07:37:49

No not really. However theres been times when i've seen a buff black girl with a white men and i get pissed. This isn't because im upset that she is with a white guy, it more like im upset because i want to be with her.

Posted by: sfresh says r.i.p. micheal j on 2009-11-30, 07:38:05

I know i could careless i dont care about the next man and his woman im more worried about me having a girl.

Posted by: Yankees09champs on 2009-11-30, 07:40:11

Being upset , they need to wake up , it's 2009. Anything is possible now.

Posted by: AFR-CAM on 2009-11-30, 07:41:41

I think when the girl is pretty they get mad, same thing when black women see a black man with a white chick, if he is fine, we get a little jealous, but if he is ugly, no one cares.

Posted by: MELANESIANBOI on 2009-11-30, 07:42:22

They probably think that the woman is crazy and a sell out yet when a black man goes out with a white woman he is the sh!t!

Posted by: Chris H. on 2009-11-30, 07:43:36

Yes they do. So many of them are oblivious and deny the facts that a lot of their so called strong and beautiful black queens like/ date white men. Since I started to log in to this section, not too long ago. I have read many Black girls users asking if White men like them or will date them. And by you asking this question, so I guess you are into white men as well.

Posted by: MARTiNAA% on 2009-11-30, 07:50:33

Uhm, why do youh care. if your a black girl, dating a white guy you should only care if your boyfriends mad. its the guys problem if he's jealous it really doesn`t concern you. i guess black guys feel like "cousin shanequa shouldn't be dating that wigga " because they think white gangster guys are fake. EMiNEM, is proof that their not fake (L) gotta love him, so these haters can suuck itt (: >who cares what other people think when black women date white men.

Posted by: WiLLiZ WaZ HeRE on 2009-11-30, 07:51:03

I'm black and I've never seem my sisters with a white dude so no I don't get upset because I've never seen any black girls with white dudes. Those white dudes are shallow and don't like my sistahz.

Posted by: Evie on 2009-11-30, 07:56:04

Some do, some don't. depends on where you're from and who they are. i have dated black women but not black men. in my experience dating different white guys, you get attention for sure because it isn't too common (even less common than bm/ ow couples) however i live in new york so most people don't care. they are used to seeing it all and even if they do have opinions the most i usually get is dirty looks or back handed comments. if i go to a predominantly black neighborhood especially a lower class one you definitely see a difference. at least i did. lol more attention and more direct comments. only once did it really escalate into physical violence for me. with my current bf of three years (hes white) we were at dick's sporting goods store and this black guy just kept coming up and making those typical sexual inappropriate comments you hear cocky guys saying. we were in line trying to ignore it and he even told me to come suck his d1ck. I'm just like wtf you clown go away! my bf just got pissed and attacked him. he slammed a store display in the guys face and started fighting with him. it was horrible. i had never seen him get so angry and he really looked like he would've killed him if we hadn't stopped it. :( the cops came and everything but no charges were pressed thank god. he's usually very cool about these types of things but i guess he felt like the guy was way out of line. it's always the cool, chill ones who snap like that you know? made me really scared for him and after we just laid in bed together all the day and talked. the silver lining i guess. so some do and some don't just like some black women get mad at black guys for dating white women and some don't. ive heard guys call me a sell out for dating white guys, true. it is what it is. i know who i am in my heart and everyone who matters knows it as well. i'm going to do what i want to do regardless of what anyone thinks. to set the record straight: i don't give two shits about who black men date. i have three white girl friends dating black guys right now and i don't have the slightest bit of jealousy/ anger/ etc.

Posted by: Shay on 2009-11-30, 10:43:05

They think we should only be for them. Just sit around wasting our lives waiting for this fantasy black man to walk through the door that doesn't exist. For an educated black woman you have these choices for love: Either wait around for the none existing IBM (IDEAL BLACK MAN), date and marry a guy that's vastly less successful or educated then you (because you just want to be with a black man) or, try finding love with men of other races. Many choose to find love with men of other races. I'm not saying they're are no good black men, just that there aren't enough for black women to be just waiting around for black men. And, in the end they do think they own us. They think we should always sit around being available for them while they mistreat us and leave us for women other races. I think that "s stupid but, the sad thing is that most black women will just sit around doing that. Women that could have families and be happy being loved and respect by men that are their educated, successful equals will just sit home alone waiting for their fantasy IBM.

Posted by: Sweet Pea on 2009-11-30, 14:39:57

In my experience, it's been black women who tend to get upset when they see it. Black women who date outside their race are seen as traitors who aren't loyal to black men. The way I see it, I don't have to be loyal to someone just because we have the same skin color. I'll be loyal to the one who treats me right and accepts me for me.

Posted by: white c0cks<33 on 2009-11-30, 18:03:28

Yes. The ladies seem to be learning just how awesome a big, thick juicy white c0ck is!

Posted by: nikki on 2009-12-01, 00:16:35

I dont know if they do or not maybe some do but its probrlay like that for white people too the thing is thats there issue not mine

Posted by: Pokey Pony on 2009-12-01, 04:40:21

Some black men get annoyed when they see fine sistas with white men.

Posted by: NoStereotyping on 2009-12-01, 07:29:25

It has been my experience that they do, just not as upset as black women get. Which I don't understand because neither black men or black women say anything when black men go outsi de the race but when black women do it we have automatically broken some unspoken rule. Girl at this point when my husband (who is white) and myself go out we just ignore it. But sometimes it is hard. answers.yahoo.com/ question/ index;_ylt= ArlqrDN9zlw52Moe5nWtObbsy6IX;_ylv= 3?qid= 20091201072636AA534S9

Posted by: cimNem on 2009-12-01, 17:33:24

Black men want it all, but they can't have it! Ha ha!